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January 2005
Volume 2 Issue 1
Aberfoyle Associates, LLC
"Solutions for successful business outcomes"

Follow These Steps to Become an Ideal Leader
Don't Take All The Money That's On The Table
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Follow These Steps to Become an Ideal Leader    top
As a leader in your organization, how much impact do you have on its performance? Probably more than you know. You may have been a leader for many years now, or recently promoted.

Your organization may be a for-profit business or a church organization. It may be a not-for-profit community service organization or a local sporting organization. It matters not. What matters is that your leadership of your organization will directly impact the results you get.

It has been said that people get the results that they deserve. If leaders are not getting the results they desire, the first place they should look is in the mirror.

What leadership traits are being exhibited? As a leader of your organization, consider the following test: Take a moment to paint a mental picture of someone you hold in esteem as a leader. Focus on appearance, actions, habits and lifestyle. 

When your picture appears sharp and clear, ask yourself these questions:

  • What specific skills and characteristics does this person possess?
  • How does this person relate to others personally, professionally, and
  • socially?
  • What does this individual do that elicits respect and admiration? When you.ve thoroughly examined the qualities that you feel make that person an effective leader, ask yourself one more question:
  • Was this leader born with such well-developed leadership traits? 

Hardly. Characteristics like being a good communicator, motivator, mentor, or coach are all developed. Creating an energizing vision, mobilizing teams, and generating commitment are all learned skills. 

Now that you have developed a list of qualities of an .ideal leader,. qualities that you believe are necessary for your success as a leader, what can you do to attain them or perfect them? Since all of these traits are developable qualities, each person in a leadership position must strive to perfect them. I am sure that the .ideal leader. you pictured works constantly at improving those things that makes him or her successful. That.s the type of person they are, because they wouldn.t be where they are now if they didn't. 

"Realize that the degree to which you lead your organization, team, or committee to success lies in your hands".

Your ability to lead both yourself and others will enhance the quality of your work as well as your life. The quality of your leadership not only determines your future, it determines the future of your organization and the lives of all those who follow you.

Leadership is first being, then doing. You must become the person that your position requires. In other words, you must assume the traits of the leader.

That is done first by determining what these traits are and then practicing them in every aspect of your life. All of a person.s actions come from years of habit formation. Replacing old habits with new ones takes commitment, perseverance, and time, but the rewards will be plentiful. It is difficult to do alone, and that.s OK. 

It is not a sign of weakness, but rather one of strength when you start to realize you are a synergistic being, interdependent on others for your success.

Some people use a coach, some prefer to be part of a team, others have a mentor, and still others use a friend or significant other that can help them through the process. No matter your preference, the key is to imagine the point in time when someone views you as his or her picture of the ideal leader, and then set your course to become.

Submitted by Jerry Fons, the founder and owner of the Leadership Development Group in Waukesha. He can be reached at 262-513-5944 or fons5@aol.com .
 

The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands in times of challenge and controversy.
Martin Luther King
 

"Don't Take All The Money That's On The Table"   top
Do you have any "friends" who call only when they want something? Are they your favorite people? Do you contact customers only when you're asking for their money? Or do you keep in touch for other reasons? Do salespeople call on you only when they want you to spend money? What if, instead, they called you with a lead, a referral, or an idea? Wouldn't that make you think you were more than just a customer? That they cared about you and your business? 

In yesterday's world, we celebrated closing a sale. Today, we celebrate opening a relationship. That's how a business is built. One of the goals in growing your business should be that the same person you sold to today would still be spending money with you ten years from now. People want to do business with people who appreciate them and look out for their interests. Be appropriately generous with your ideas and time.  If you want to be perceived as an irreplaceable unpaid advisor by your customers, phone them now and then, saying something like, "Hey, I've got an idea that might work for you." Or, "I've got a potential customer for you" or "Here's something that might help your business." Absolutely no strings and no expectations of an order. 

It pays not to take all the money on the table. Always give your customers more than they pay for. 

HOMEWORK -

What can you do to make yourself an unpaid advisor so you become invaluable to your customers and guarantee their loyalty?
Reprint permission by Patricia Fripp. PFripp@fripp.com , (800) 634-3035, (415) 753-6556

 

One Minute Ideas   top
Use praise to inspire employees who are performing poorly in one area but well in others. Here's how: Praise what the employee is doing well, then say: "Now, I want you to take the same approach on this other matter."
Adapted from Coaching for Performance, John Whitmore, Nicholas Publishing.

Reward Staffers For Imperfection
Encourage your staff to take calculated risks by promising to reward them for not being perfect. Have them come to their next performance appraisal ready to regale you with examples of their well-intentioned mistakes.
Adapted from Leadership and the Customer Revolution, Gary Heil, Tom Parker, and Rick Tate, Van Nostrand Reinhold.

Before you buy a computer or software, call the maker's toll-free help numbers. Reason: If you can't get through or must hold a long time, you'll be better able to decide which companies you don't want to deal with.
Source: Bill Altier, Princeton Associates Inc., P.O. Box 820, Buckingham, PA 18912

 

About Us    top
Aberfoyle Associates is a company committed to helping companies and individuals improve their results. We achieve this by aligning your personal and professional priorities to achieve your desired goals. Feel free to call or write to us for details.

All articles, quotes, and material in this newsletter are copyrighted. © 2003. No part can be reproduced or redistributed in any form without specific written consent from copyright holder(s). All rights reserved worldwide.

John O.Sullivan is the founder of Aberfoyle Associates, a company that brings simple, common sense, practical solutions to organizations, large and small. His company provides Coaching and Consulting Services to companies nationwide and is dedicated to helping his clients simply get things done. In the final analysis, it is RESULTS that count; achieve yours now! Call or e-mail for your FREE consultation

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